The Christian Post | How to hear God’s voice when life’s fallen apart

C.S. Lewis famously said, “Pain insists upon being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pain.” Not always. Our members call us every day for prayer and encouragement as they seek God’s help to walk through health crises. We asked one of our Medi-Share members, Niki Hardy, to share how she managed to hear God’s voice when it seemed that her life was falling apart.

It was cancer or lymphoma, that’s what the doctor said. I was told in no uncertain terms that there was no third option.

Cancer. The C word.

A cancer diagnosis is awful enough, but I’d lost my sister to this ravaging disease just six weeks before and my mom six years before that.

As you can imagine, my mind raced and swirled.

Had the heat-seeking missile of death now locked in on me?

What had I done to deserve this?

How would we tell the kids?

God, are you mad at me?

Are you kidding, after all I’ve done for you?

The more I screamed at him, the louder the silence that greeted me in return.

I needed answers. I needed to hear Him, to feel his presence and know that he is good, even if life wasn’t. Surely, he would speak. But how exactly do we hear the voice of God?

It’s hard enough to get a sense of what he’s saying when life is all rainbows and butterflies, but when life stinks as badly as a week-old tuna sandwich it seems harder than ever. So I prayed and listened, but all I got was silence.

Maybe you’re praying for an answer to a really big question, too. A yes or no, a go or stay, a here or there question burning through you. Or perhaps, like me, what you need to hear more than anything else is that you’re loved and not invisible. It’s a hard place to be, isn’t it?

Our God is a relational God and we know his plans are better than ours, so we want to follow his will. And yet it’s hard when we can’t hear what that will is. We desperately want to do the right thing and know his truth, but how on earth are we meant to if we can’t hear what he’s saying?

We’re left directionless, frustrated, and, if you’re anything like me, a little angry and resentful.

Hello God, I’m trying to do my best here, but life’s fallen apart. The least you could do is speak to me.

Eventually, I did hear him.

In the mindless daydreaming of my morning — clearing the breakfast things and walking the dog — my brain was free to hear. It was less of a revelation and more of a realization. He was there, I was loved and he wasn’t leaving me.

As J.I. Packer says, “God…guides our minds as we think things out in his presence.”

I’m a left-brained science major who overthinks and analyzes anything and everything, but I’ve been learning to turn off my logical, ever-churning left brain to free up my more creative, intuitive right brain because it’s there I hear God’s still small voice. I’ve learned we must use both sides of our brain to tune into the voice of God and I’ve discovered this four-step plan that really helps.

A 4-Step Plan to Hearing God’s Voice

By the way, if you doubt you can hear God’s voice I want to remind you that he is the Shepherd, he calls you by name, and you, as one of his sheep, can hear his voice (John 10). We so often miss his voice with all the other noise around us but it is there; we just need to learn how to tune into it.

Hearing his voice requires us to use both sides of our brain: the logical, analytical, and rational left side and the intangible, creative right side.

1. Ask

Using our left (logical) side of our brain, we ask God to speak to us, confident he will. There’s no need for fancy prayers ― a simple “Please God, speak to me” is just fine. Let’s not be afraid to ask. We are loved, forgiven and enough. God wants to talk to us.

2. Listen

Now we must turn our left brain off and use our right, more intuitive brain to listen. God speaks through his Holy Spirit to the eyes of our hearts (Ephesians 1:18), which we access through our right brains. The key to listening with our right brain is to engage in activities that help us switch off our left brain and switch on our right brain. Worship, journaling, prayer and reciting scripture ― all these help us tune in to what he might be saying.

3. Acknowledge

Still using our right brains and shutting out all our attempts to evaluate what we think we may be hearing, we must acknowledge the thought, scripture, or picture that’s popped into our head and write it down. God doesn’t always speak so clearly that there is no room for doubt, so we must step out in faith and go with it.

4. Test

Now we get to turn our left brains back on and test what we think we might have heard. Does it sound biblical, like something God would say, and are other believers saying similar things to you?

I’ve found learning to hear God’s voice is one of the most fulfilling yet tricky parts of my faith, and yet it’s one of the most needed when life falls apart. We wish we could know for sure what he is saying, and yet, although God doesn’t always speak with such certainty that there is no room for doubt or faith, we can learn to tune out the world and tune in to our Father’s voice.

Florida-based Christian Care Ministry operates the Medi-Share health care sharing program through which members voluntarily and directly share each other’s medical bills. Since the program’s inception in 1993, Medi-Share members have shared more than $2 billion in medical bills. And because of access to an extensive network of more than 700,000 health care providers, members have saved an additional $1.3 billion in medical costs during that time. Medi-Share has over 415,000 members in all 50 states.

More than just health care, Medi-Share is a community of people who share their lives, faith, talents and resources and pray for and encourage one another. For more information, visit

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